{"run":"var comment = {\"html\":\"    \\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/feed\\\/comments\\\/?type=photo&id=6986&page=3\\\" class=\\\"load_more_comments ajax\\\"  onclick=\\\"$(this).addClass('active');\\\">\\n\\t<i class=\\\"fa fa-spin fa-circle-o-notch\\\"><\\\/i><span>View previous comments<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24451\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/theoriginalsteve\\\" title=\\\"theoriginalsteve\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/05908993adf9ac9d1d4c848f230d93bf_120_square.jpg\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"theoriginalsteve\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_theoriginalsteve\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/theoriginalsteve\\\">theoriginalsteve<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24451\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_parent\\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_part\\\">if it&#39;s something that will stop certain consequences that are worse than the current situation or eventual turn of events, then most likely yes. Even if it&#39;s seemingly the wrong time, it&#39;s probably the right thing to do.  I&#39;m trying to empathise with the reciever of the news - I may well be angry i...<span class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents(&#039;.js_view_more_parent:first&#039;).find(&#039;.js_view_more_part&#039;).hide(); $(this).parents(&#039;.js_view_more_parent:first&#039;).find(&#039;.js_view_more_full&#039;).show(); return false;\\\">View More<\\\/a><\\\/span><\\\/span><span class=\\\"js_view_more_full\\\" style=\\\"display:none;\\\">if it&#39;s something that will stop certain consequences that are worse than the current situation or eventual turn of events, then most likely yes. Even if it&#39;s seemingly the wrong time, it&#39;s probably the right thing to do.  I&#39;m trying to empathise with the reciever of the news - I may well be angry in the moment, but I would be thankful in the longterm. It may well depend on the specifics, and if there ways to break news\\\/give advice in different ways, and also the recipent as well.<div class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents(&#039;.js_view_more_parent:first&#039;).find(&#039;.js_view_more_full&#039;).hide(); $(this).parents(&#039;.js_view_more_parent:first&#039;).find(&#039;.js_view_more_part&#039;).show(); return false;\\\">View Less<\\\/a><\\\/div><\\\/span><\\\/span><\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24451\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24451');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n5\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24451\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24451\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24451\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24451\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24452\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/Nelly\\\" title=\\\"Nelly\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/ed9af6d9c73886a5853a24e7ef92b1f8_120_square.jpeg\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"Nelly\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_Nelly\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/Nelly\\\">Nelly<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24452\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_parent\\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_part\\\">Yep, if it needs saying the timing isn\\u2019t going to be any better in a few days \\\/ weeks when things have got worse! You are a bit dammed if you do ( bad timing ) and dammed if you don\\u2019t (things have got worse, why didn\\u2019t you say anything! ). Sounds like you have considered things and chosen the path t...<span class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_part').hide(); $(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_full').show(); return false;\\\">View More<\\\/a><\\\/span><\\\/span><span class=\\\"js_view_more_full\\\" style=\\\"display:none;\\\">Yep, if it needs saying the timing isn\\u2019t going to be any better in a few days \\\/ weeks when things have got worse! You are a bit dammed if you do ( bad timing ) and dammed if you don\\u2019t (things have got worse, why didn\\u2019t you say anything! ). Sounds like you have considered things and chosen the path that will be the best \\\/ cause least harm in long run, which is all you can do.<div class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_full').hide(); $(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_part').show(); return false;\\\">View Less<\\\/a><\\\/div><\\\/span><\\\/span><\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24452\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24452');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n5\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24452\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24452\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24452\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24452\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24454\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/Graham-S\\\" title=\\\"Graham-S\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/04\\\/e06f1ce7081c08d3ecba49f6f4870fcd_120_square.png\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"Graham-S\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_Graham-S\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/Graham-S\\\">Graham-S<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24454\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\">^^ wot they said<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24454\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24454');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n4\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24454\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24454\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24454\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24454\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24455\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/suetopia\\\" title=\\\"BunnyMeows\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/03\\\/ba03e80fc8ccea8cfb15b7b7ca45d361_120_square.jpeg\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"BunnyMeows\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_suetopia\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/suetopia\\\">BunnyMeows<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24455\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_parent\\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_part\\\">Thank you so much for the feedback. I really appreciate it. I am feeling better about things now. I feel it was the right thing to do in the long run even if it felt crappy to do it. And they didn\\u2019t take it well. But I expected that - and would have expected that and understood it even without the a...<span class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_part').hide(); $(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_full').show(); return false;\\\">View More<\\\/a><\\\/span><\\\/span><span class=\\\"js_view_more_full\\\" style=\\\"display:none;\\\">Thank you so much for the feedback. I really appreciate it. I am feeling better about things now. I feel it was the right thing to do in the long run even if it felt crappy to do it. And they didn\\u2019t take it well. But I expected that - and would have expected that and understood it even without the awful timing. They had already reacted before I posted this. I\\u2019m just hoping with time they will understand why I said it, why it needed to be said etc.<div class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_full').hide(); $(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_part').show(); return false;\\\">View Less<\\\/a><\\\/div><\\\/span><\\\/span><\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24455\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24455');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n4\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24455\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24455\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24455\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24455\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24456\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/suetopia\\\" title=\\\"BunnyMeows\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/03\\\/ba03e80fc8ccea8cfb15b7b7ca45d361_120_square.jpeg\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"BunnyMeows\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_suetopia\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/suetopia\\\">BunnyMeows<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24456\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\">I had pretty much already decided that I needed to say something before the awful timing thing too. I had already thought about and carefully written down what I wanted to say.<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24456\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24456');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n3\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24456\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24456\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24456\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24456\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24457\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/Graham-S\\\" title=\\\"Graham-S\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/04\\\/e06f1ce7081c08d3ecba49f6f4870fcd_120_square.png\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"Graham-S\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_Graham-S\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/Graham-S\\\">Graham-S<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24457\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\">Let things calm down then reach out with a How&#39;s things \\\/ You OK<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24457\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24457');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n4\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24457\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24457\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24457\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24457\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24458\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/FoxyHands\\\" title=\\\"FoxyHands\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/a82e99b4597f02608be89b97a745d163_120_square.gif\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"FoxyHands\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_FoxyHands\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/FoxyHands\\\">FoxyHands<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24458\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_parent\\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_part\\\">If it needed to be said, there was probably never a good time to say, just a least bad time or unavoidable to say it now because it would in all probability be worse to say it later.  The alternative would be to say nothing and if they later found out you knew and said nothing, they definitely would...<span class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_part').hide(); $(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_full').show(); return false;\\\">View More<\\\/a><\\\/span><\\\/span><span class=\\\"js_view_more_full\\\" style=\\\"display:none;\\\">If it needed to be said, there was probably never a good time to say, just a least bad time or unavoidable to say it now because it would in all probability be worse to say it later.  The alternative would be to say nothing and if they later found out you knew and said nothing, they definitely would blame you.  Publish and be damned.<div class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_full').hide(); $(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_part').show(); return false;\\\">View Less<\\\/a><\\\/div><\\\/span><\\\/span><\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24458\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24458');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n5\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24458\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24458\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24458\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24458\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24459\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/FoxyHands\\\" title=\\\"FoxyHands\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/01\\\/a82e99b4597f02608be89b97a745d163_120_square.gif\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"FoxyHands\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_FoxyHands\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/FoxyHands\\\">FoxyHands<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24459\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\">^^ Also, why should you not say something and be the one to suffer from silently carrying the knowledge inside you?<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24459\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24459');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n5\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24459\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24459\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24459\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24459\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24463\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/BigPhil\\\" title=\\\"BigPhil\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2025\\\/03\\\/a27c4eb658bcfdacb04c894b0b179ffb_120_square.jpeg\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"BigPhil\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_BigPhil\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/BigPhil\\\">BigPhil<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24463\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\">BunnyMeows Nothing much to add to the wise words above...but.... *hugs*<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24463\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24463');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n4\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24463\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24463\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24463\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24463\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_24465\\\" class=\\\"js_mini_feed_comment comment_mini js_mini_comment_item_6986 \\\">\\n\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_image\\\">\\n<a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/suetopia\\\" title=\\\"BunnyMeows\\\"><div class=\\\"img-wrapper\\\"><img data-src=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/PF.Base\\\/file\\\/pic\\\/user\\\/2026\\\/03\\\/ba03e80fc8ccea8cfb15b7b7ca45d361_120_square.jpeg\\\" src=\\\"data:image\\\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\\\/\\\/\\\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\\\"  alt=\\\"BunnyMeows\\\"  class=\\\" _image_40 image_deferred \\\" \\\/><\\\/div><\\\/a>\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_content\\\">\\n<span class=\\\"user_profile_link_span\\\" id=\\\"js_user_name_link_suetopia\\\"><a href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/suetopia\\\">BunnyMeows<\\\/a><\\\/span><div id=\\\"js_comment_text_24465\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_text \\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_parent\\\"><span class=\\\"js_view_more_part\\\">Thanks <a class=\\\"status_user_tag\\\" id=\\\"3\\\" href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/FoxyHands\\\/\\\">FoxyHands<\\\/a> :heart: It was something they were doing to me (unconsciously, I hope). It was hurting me. I was already getting ready to say something. Then they got bad news. <a class=\\\"status_user_tag\\\" id=\\\"5\\\" href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/Nelly\\\/\\\">Nelly<\\\/a> put it perfectly - damned if I do, dammed if I don\\u2019t. I may have blown the friendship up, but if I hadn\\u2019t said anyth...<span class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_part').hide(); $(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_full').show(); return false;\\\">View More<\\\/a><\\\/span><\\\/span><span class=\\\"js_view_more_full\\\" style=\\\"display:none;\\\">Thanks <a class=\\\"status_user_tag\\\" id=\\\"3\\\" href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/FoxyHands\\\/\\\">FoxyHands<\\\/a> :heart: It was something they were doing to me (unconsciously, I hope). It was hurting me. I was already getting ready to say something. Then they got bad news. <a class=\\\"status_user_tag\\\" id=\\\"5\\\" href=\\\"https:\\\/\\\/www.tapped-out.co.uk\\\/Nelly\\\/\\\">Nelly<\\\/a> put it perfectly - damned if I do, dammed if I don\\u2019t. I may have blown the friendship up, but if I hadn\\u2019t said anything then I would have started resenting them and avoiding them - even with the bad news. So the friendship would have blown up.<div class=\\\"item_view_more\\\"><a href=\\\"#\\\" onclick=\\\"$(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_full').hide(); $(this).parents('.js_view_more_parent:first').find('.js_view_more_part').show(); return false;\\\">View Less<\\\/a><\\\/div><\\\/span><\\\/span><\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t<div class=\\\"comment_mini_action\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<ul>\\n<a role=\\\"button\\\" title=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-toggle=\\\"like_toggle_cmd\\\"\\n   data-label1=\\\"Like\\\"\\n   data-label2=\\\"Unlike\\\"\\n   data-liked=\\\"0\\\"\\n   data-type_id=\\\"feed_mini\\\"\\n   data-item_id=\\\"24465\\\"\\n   data-feed_id=\\\"6986\\\"\\n   data-is_custom=\\\"1\\\"\\n   data-table_prefix=\\\"\\\"\\n   class=\\\"js_like_link_toggle unlike\\\">\\n        <span>Like<\\\/span>\\n<\\\/a>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"total-like js_like_link_holder\\\" >\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span onclick=\\\"return $Core.box('like.browse', 450, 'type_id=feed_mini&amp;item_id=24465');\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<span class=\\\"js_like_link_holder_info\\\">\\n4\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/span>\\n\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<li class=\\\"comment_mini_entry_time_stamp\\\">August 3, 2023<\\\/li>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t<\\\/ul>\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_form_holder_24465\\\" class=\\\"js_comment_form_holder\\\"><\\\/div>\\n\\n\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_mini_child_holder_24465\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_holder\\\">\\n\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_comment_children_holder_24465\\\" class=\\\"comment_mini_child_content\\\">\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\t<div id=\\\"js_feed_like_holder_24465\\\"> <\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t\\t\\t\\n\\t\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\t\\t<\\\/div>\\t\\t\\n\\t<\\\/div>\\n\\n<script type=\\\"text\\\/javascript\\\">\\n\\t\\n    $Behavior.hideEmptyFeedOptions = function() {\\n      $('[data-component=\\\"feed-options\\\"] ul.dropdown-menu').each(function() {\\n        if ($(this).children().length !== 0) {\\n          var dropdownMenu = $(this).closest('[data-component=\\\"feed-options\\\"]');\\n\\n          dropdownMenu.removeClass('hide');\\n          dropdownMenu.closest('.js_feed_view_more_entry_holder').\\n              find('.activity_feed_header_info').\\n              addClass('feed-has-dropdown-menu');\\n        }\\n      });\\n    };\\n\\t\\n<\\\/script>\\n\"}; $('#js_feed_comment_pager_photo6986').prepend(comment.html); $Core.loadInit();obj.remove();"}