BunnyMeows
on August 3, 2023
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A question for you TOukies.
Is it ok to say something that needs to be said even if the timing is absolutely terrible?
Because that’s what I did, and I’m not sure how I feel about it. I’m not sure if it was selfish.
I know it needed to be said. I know why it needed to be said. I’m 100% confident that it needed to be said. I knew it wouldn’t be received well because of what I was saying, so I worded it as carefully as I could. But I needed to say it, because avoiding it would have probably made things worse (and worse at a time when that would not have been a good thing).
But the timing was awful. I knew the timing was awful. I said it anyway so things wouldn’t get worse. But the timing was awful. Really awful. :confused:
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BunnyMeows
Graham-S - that’s good advice. I think I might wait until they are ready to speak with me. The timing was awful, so I’m sure they are hurt I said it now (and it is totally understandable and absolutely legitimate for them to feel that way). They would have been hurt regardless, but especially now.
BunnyMeows
I’m sorry I am/was being so cryptic about the situation. I know they will never come here, but I still wanted to be considerate about how they would feel about me discussing something to do with them.
BunnyMeows
BigPhil *hugs* :heart:
FeliciaFirestarterFancy
I don’t have anything else to add and agree with everything that has been said. There will never be a good time to say some things and you have to put your health and happiness first sometimes. Big feathery hugs for you :heart:
BunnyMeows
BunnyMeows
I’m very lucky to have all of you as friends. Thank you for talking about this with me :heart:
Katbird
BunnyMeows nothing I can really add to what's been said. *hugs* ❤
BunnyMeows
Katbird *hugs* :heart:
Graham-S
Were the lucky ones, having a brilliant barmy bunny buddy :smile:
BunnyMeows
Graham-S *hugs* :heart: